According to the speaker, what we need to do to get others like us on a date?

A. To show that we have a good relationship to ourselves (i.e. We can recognize our own failings.).
B. To show that we view the other person with a mixture of tenderness and realism (指出我们看待对方既温柔又现实).
C. To drop in a small warm tease(开个小玩笑) that shows our understanding of some less than perfect side of them.
D. To please and compliment them with endless sweet words.