Task 5 Listen to the following passage three times and fill in the blanks with what you hear. How to give people advice? 1. _____________ , make sure that the person who is talking to you is actually seeking advice. He or she may just want you to listen and be a good 2. _____________ , seeking instead of understanding, empathy (同情), and compassion (怜悯). Don't assume that everyone wants advice. You may have some insight into the problem(s), but you really need to listen attentively to a person first for a very long time to understand the situation. If, and 3. _____________, your friend actually ASKS for advice should you then furnish it.It is a great honor to be asked for advice, but it is also a big responsibility. Good advice can help people make sound decisions or find the right path in life, 4. _____________ bad advice can have disastrous consequences. 5. _____________ , with a little forethought you can weed out (除去) the good from the bad.