I strongly believe that understanding is more important than love, especially when it comes to parenting and intimate relationships. As a psychologist for more than twenty years I can tell you that I have never had an adult looking back at her childhood and complaining that her parents were too understanding. And similarly, I have met many divorced people who still love each other but yet they never really understood each other. The painful reality is that love is just not enough. I"ll admit that there are people who I love and who I still need to better understand. I hope I"ll continue my work to understand them. The willingness to understand is very important. It is not always easy, but healthy love is strengthened by the willingness to understand. Love without understanding will wilt like flowers without water. Our egos are what seem to get in the way of understanding those who we love and care about. Often it is our need to be right that makes what others think and feel so wrong for us. I have certainly been quite guilty of this in some of my relationships. As I have written repeatedly in my books, empathy, is truly the emotional glue that holds all close relationships together. Empathy allows us to slow down and try to walk in the shoes ofWhy are we unable to understand the others sometimes
A. Because we are caring the others too much.
Because it is quite difficult to understand the others.
C. Because we believe we are always right.
D. Because the others have done something wrong.
患儿男,3岁。自幼人工喂养,食欲极差,有时腹泻。身高85cm,体重7500g。皮肤干燥、苍白,腹部皮下脂肪厚度约0.3cm。脉搏缓慢,心音较低钝。假设此患儿清晨突然面色苍白、神志不清、体温不升、呼吸暂停,首先应考虑最可能的原因是()
A. 急性心力衰竭
B. 低钙血症引起喉痉挛
C. 低钾血症引起呼吸肌麻痹
D. 自发性低血糖
E. 脱水引起休克