by the difference between what I call public and private speaking.More men feel comfortable doing "public speaking," while more women feel comfortable doing "private" speaking.Another way of capturing these differences is by using the terms report-talk and rapport-talk.For most women, the language of conversation is primarily a language of rapport: a way of establishing connections and negotiating relationships. Emphasis is placed on displaying similarities and matching experiences. From childhood, girls criticize their friends who try to stand out or appear better than others. People feel their closest connections at home, or in places where they feel at home -- with one or a few people they feel close to and comfortable with -- in other words, during private speaking. But even the most public situations can be approached like private speaking.
For most women，talk is primarily a means to preserve independence and negotiate and maintain status in a hierarchical(等级制度的) social order.This is done by exhibiting knowledge and skill，and by ho1ding center stage through verbal performance such as torytelling，joking，or conveying information.From childhood，men learn to use talking as a way to get and keep attention.Therefore，they are more comfortable speaking in 1arger groups made up of people they know 1ess well，in the broadest sense，"public speaking”. But even the most private situations can be approached like public speaking,more like giving a report than establishing rapport.
21.A similar term for "private talking" is ___________.
[A]report-talk
[B]rapport-talk
[C]persuasive talk
[D]women's talk
22.When women talk，they tend to________.
[A]admire their friends who stand out
[B]make others feel at home
[C]approach public situations like private talking
[D]seek close relationship with other speakers
23. Men talk in order to________.
[A]make new friends
[B]share experience
[C]argue with others
[D]attract attention
24. The purpose of this passage is to _______.
[A]contrast the male and female talking styles
[B]prove that men talk more effectively than women
[C]analyze why men and women are different
[D]draw people's attention to the difference between men and women
25. Which of the following is true？
[A]Men talk more than women.
[B]Men feel more comfortable making a public speech than women.
[C]Men are more knowledgeable than women.
[D]Men are more independent than women.