求助者:男性,25岁,未婚,饭店服务员。求助者自述:因感情问题而苦恼,伴有失眠,一月余。案例介绍:求助者在高中时曾经与班里的一位女同学关系很好,毕业后成为恋人。因离开家乡到城市打工,彼此不常见面。半年前,在老乡聚会时认识了一个长得很漂亮的女孩,开始只是作为一般的朋友相处。有一次他发烧,女孩来看他,给他做饭、洗衣服,他很感动,对女孩产生感情并开始约会。一个多月前,家乡的女朋友突然来了,提出要在这里找工作,还讨论准备结婚的事。求助者很矛盾,两个女朋友自己都喜欢,舍去谁都觉得为难,现在不知该怎么办,有时很内疚,觉得对不起她们。有时觉得自己不道德,为此苦恼、烦躁。最近半个多月,经常失眠,不想吃饭,偶尔心慌、出汗、做噩梦。虽然能每天工作,但是效率下降,觉得活着真难。有时会出现离奇的想法,比如,自己要是能分身就好了。还曾经把两个女朋友认错,担心自己会得精神病,因此来寻求帮助。心理咨询师观察、了解到的情况:求助者的相貌较好,高中毕业后,没有考上大学,来城市打工。希望心理咨询师能指导他该怎么办,选择哪个女朋友好。该求助者的心理问题的特点包括()。
A. 存在动机冲突
B. 一定有人格障碍
C. 病程相对较短
D. 社会功能损害重
In every cultivated language, there are two great classes of words which, taken together, comprise the whole vocabulary. First, there are those words(1)which we become acquainted in daily conversation, which we(2),that is to say, from the(3) of our own family and from our familiar associates, and(4) we should know and use (5 )we could not read or write. They (6) the common things of life, and are the stock in trade of all who (7) the language. Such words may be called“popular”, since they belong to the people (8) and are not the exclusive (9) of a limited class. On the other hand, our language (10) a multitude of words which are comparatively (11) used in ordinary conversation. Their meanings are known to every educated person, but there is little (12) to use them at home or in the market-place. Our (13) acquaintance with them comes not from our mother's (14) or from the talk of our school-mates, (15) from books that we read, lectures that we (16) ,or the more (17)conversation of highly educated speakers who are discussing some particular (18) n a style appropriately elevated above the habitual(19) f everyday life. Such words are called“learned”, and the (20) between them and the“popular”words is of great importance to a right understanding of linguistic process. 请在1处填上正确答案()
A. at
B. with
C. by
D. through